There are so many obvious questions for a wife like me: Later that evening, when I told Chris what happened, he reminded me that he'd always been teased about being gay, but he assured me, "It's not true. Most active discussions votes comments. But when there are sexual problems, the relationship becomes subverted and sex quickly becomes an all-consuming concern. I soon learned that straight spouses typically blame themselves for not being sexy enough to keep their husband from straying. Are we going to counseling?
As bad as it is when another woman manages to steal your husband, at least you believe you can compete.
This Is What It's Like To Be Young And In A Sexless Relationship
For these couples, infrequent intercourse isn't a sign of flagging intimacy or reduced attraction. Being gay would not only endanger his job and family life, it could also cost him his relationship with his parents, his church and God. We rarely spent time alone together because Chris preferred to have dinner parties, go to parties or play cards with friends. I'd never had a boyfriend before, and I felt incredibly flattered when this popular, good-looking guy asked me out. Afterwards, there were a few minutes when just he and I were in the living room, and I thought it was now or never so I kissed him, and that was that. He became defensive and announced, "I haven't gone to bed with anybody, but I've been going to gay bars.